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The Secrets to Living Wholeheartedly
"There is a blessing in everything. The challenge is to find it." (Buddha) Cancer itself is not a blessing, but the insights and...
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The power of sleep
Sleep is one of the most underrated activities that each one of us does every day. When you sleep, your body and your brain rejuvenates...
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Change what you can change
My friend Anna shared with me the following poem - which can also serve as a prayer - to help me cope with the cancer diagnosis. While it...
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Why I did not opt for reconstruction
Well, I could not have imagined it before the double breast amputations in mid 2014 .... but I have decided against any breast...
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You never walk alone
When confronted with a tough problem, some default to the mindset that they are all alone in the crisis and feel overwhelmed. My friend...
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To get to a happy place
People tend to think that they cannot feel happy until every one of their problems is solved. My experience is that it can well be the...
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Harness what defines YOU
In the past months I have reflected a lot what really defines me. Due to the two breast cancers, I lost both of my breasts … key signals...
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Rising to the occasion
My friend Sevil once told me about the Turkish saying, “We plan and the gods laugh at us.” That’s exactly how I feel sometimes because...
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Inhale love, exhale gratitude
This week's blog post is dedicated to my family and friends who have really helped me through my toughest times, who have showered me...
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The power of words
We use words so often that we tend to believe that they are just that: mere words ....and so we do not pay a lot of attention on which...